So you have decided that a D/s relationship is right for you?

Great, at this point the assumption is that you have educated yourself to some basic degree about what D/s is, that includes knowledge about the lifestyle and your role, limits, and desires. So if you have answered these three important first questions:

  • Am I Dominant or submissive?
  • What level of D/s am I comfortable with?
  • What do I want to gain from a D/s relationship?

it is time to read up on the legal and mutual aspects of the D/s relationship.

The following sections should help you navigate the process of establishing a Safe, Sane, and Consensual D/s relationship.